Few days ago, Thursday was a well spent afternoon at the coffee house with some good friends. A whole meaningful and deep deep convos that i didnt expect i'd be having with a bunch of friends which surely neither of us knows what's exactly going on with our life, a bunch of clueless not-so adults that pretend to be one or being forced to be one i assume. A grown up human, people might say, when in fact we are just some kiddos trying to figure things out and fight against our reality.
People, a complex human being with endless wishes and dreams in mind. We talked a lot from A to Z, random things, future plans, what we want, dreams, reality, and i definitely had a great time with them. I didnt expect i would even have such convos with them. It was so mind blowing, i got to know deeper about my friends, how they see things, how they want life to be, how they picture what future has in store, and how they imagine what stable life looks like. And i could say, people are divers, what they want, what they like, and what they see. Some just want to have a stable life, raising kids, have a happy family, spend their times with their parents while still can. Some doesnt even bother about having a partner, enjoy life to the fullest, travel the world, take care of their cats, buy their parents a house, and collect snowglobes. Some already think about growing old in their hometown with their partner and kids, volunteer and help more people in need. Some want a small house but with nice cars, own a mclaren or two, and go to iceland and witness the aurora borealis. People have their own priorities, and none of them is "small".
Wanting to have a stable life and a small house is just as amazing as wanting to travel the world and collect snowglobe, as well as wanting to spend times and live happily with the family is just as magnificent as wanting to feed stray cats and live alone by their ownselves. Some wants a small house and some wants a big loft, some wants to live in a big city and some wants to live in a small town with fresh air. I believe both sides have a pretty good reason behind what they want life to be. Im happy and grateful to get to meet lots of people with different pov on how they see life and how they define what perfect life would be. Everyone has their own perspective on how things should be and a good story on why they want what they want in life.
Time flies, people change, as well as what we want in life, the way we think, and the way we see life. Life may not always fun and happy but just play along with it, it might surprise you with big surprises. Sad, happy, laugh, tear, up, down, will always stop by and say hi. Everything is just temporary and we have our own timeline. We might be planning and preparing things for tomorrow but we would never know what the future holds. Seeing things from a bigger perspective and from a different pov will definitely make life much better, make us more understanding and judge less. Im forever grateful to be where i am now and to all my friends, im thank you for always being here for me, telling me stories, making me laugh with those nonsense jokes haha, and thank you for embracing this freaky weird friend of yours aka me.
